3 Most Important Things In The Life Of A Disciple: every successful disciple maker must know.

I want to show you the 3 most important things in the life of a true Disciple of Christ.

Do you want to succeed in the disciple-making ministry? Do you want to successfully help people become true disciples of Christ?

If your answer is yes, then you must know and understand the three most important things in the life of any disciple of Christ.
When these three things are missing, then the person is not a disciple.

A disciple learns from Jesus Christ. Without these things the disciple cannot learn from Jesus Christ correctly.

So many people had ventured into the disciple-making ministry without the full acknowledgement of these three factors.

This has resulted into some level of failure in their disciple-making ministry. It as also resulted into non productive strategies.

They may only succeed in raising people who do not manifest the true characteristics of true disciples. Most of these disciples are so dependent on the disciple maker and never be able to fetch for themselves.

This is not God’s plan for his people. God wants obedient disciples who knows God personally, obeys God wholeheartedly and could make Christ known to others.

Such disciple must not be dependent on the disciple makers to be spoon-fed by them for life. This is a great burden to the minister and the Church.

For you to succeed in your disciple-making ministry, you must understand these three most important factors in the life of any true disciple of Christ.

You must build these things in them first and early enough.

I will be showing you these three factors in this blog. I believe it will help transform your strategy and approach to the disciple-making ministry.
These are the three most important factors in a disciple’s life.

# 1. The disciple must be hearing from Christ personally.

A Disciple of CHRIST is a learner who learn from Jesus Christ directly by listening to what Jesus Christ is saying.

Jesus said “my sheep hears my voice and obey me”. If the disciple is not hearing from Christ (not from you) how can he learn from him and obey him?

Teach the disciple to hear from Christ on his own. This is the first lesson you must teach the disciple.
Teach them how to hear from Christ through his word and the body of other believers.

# 2. The disciple must be obeying Christ personally.

True Disciples obeys the master in all things and always.

A Disciple learns from Christ by practice.
Jesus said “if you obey my commandments you remain in me”.

Obeying what Christ says transforms the disciple and glorifies the Father.

Develop a strategy that teaches the disciple to know how to hear from Christ and obey him as early as possible.
In this way you will be set to produce authentic Disciple of CHRIST.

# 3. The disciple must be sharing with others personally.

True disciples are good advocates of their master. They spread the word of their master every where they go.
This is how the disciple makes more Disciples for the master.

Like the Samaritan woman, true Disciples tell others: “come see a man who told me all about myself”. She told them what the master told her and she had a big harvest of more Disciples for Christ in Samaria.

Do you have a plan to teach and coach the disciple to share with people daily what they heard or received from Christ?

This is how the disciple becomes a disciple maker CHRIST want all his disciples to be.

As a disciple maker, your success lies in making Disciples who hears, obeys and make Disciples of CHRIST.

Knowing this and Teaching the disciple very early to do these will enable you to raise growing and maturing disciples in a short time.

I hope this has blessed you.

How do you think a Disciple-Maker can do this better? Comment Bellow to share your insights.

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Peace to you.

Your Disciple Makers Coach
Victor OlaJesu.

©August 1, 2020.


Very soon, God’s Power and Wisdom will Wipe out all Satan’s Move in the Church as you see them Today.

So many genuine disciples of CHRIST are seriously unhappy and saddened by the current state of the Church.

If your heart is not troubled, it may be it needs a check up. Mine is troubled also.

So many stories comes out of the church cycle everyday. Corruption, fake miracles, satanic miracles disguised as God’s miracles to deceive people. Fake prophets, apostles, evangelists, pastors and teachers.

So many people has been swayed, deceived and made children of hell.

Meeting someone in Church today isn’t a guarantee that h/she is a child of God.

These things has brought discouragement and depression to the heart and mind of many believers and aspiring believers.

So many questions unanswered. Many had changed churches seven to ten times and found they are all the same and now sat at home confused but determined not to attend any Church family again.

During evangelism one day a man I preached to that Sunday morning said he can never go to church because it was a married pastor who took his fiance from him, furnished an apartment for her and used her as side chick. His friend summarised it by saying “if you take one problem to the church today, they will help you multiply it to one hundred”.

This may not be the story everywhere because true churches and believers still exists.
But you will agree with me that the depressing news has superceeded the good testimonies of the church.

As depressing as this case may be, God spoke to me about it and his words gave me hope and courage.

I now decided not to continue to join the complaints but to courageously start a move in the right direction no matter how small.

I will share with you what God told me may be you can learn from it also.

The Lord told me that the Snake of Moses swallowed all the three snakes of the Egyptian magicians. Even though the magicians’ snakes outnumbered Moses’ snake; just like fake pastors and ministries seems to outnumber true ones today; yet Moses’ snake swallowed theirs up and Moses picked his snake that became his rod again.

But the magicians lost all their snakes and rods that day. They went home empty handed.

God said to me that “just as Moses’ snake swallowed all the Egyptian’s snakes, so the power and wisdom of God will swallow all of Satan’s show in the church today.

There is a move of God that is coming now and have even started. It looks small but God is saying that it shall swallow all the present evil in the church as you see them today.

Do not be discouraged and stop engaging in the complaints but begin to be the solution.

Start doing something courageously no matter how small in the right direction and you will see again that the small move of God will soon and very soon swallow all the magician snakes manifesting in the church today.

Stop the complaints about the Church and start doing something today in the right direction.

Stop complaining, Start Acting!




Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord. Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them. Children, obey your parents in all things: for this is well pleasing unto the Lord. Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged. (Col 3:18-21).

Today we face various challenges in our quest to raise godly homes. Most of these challenges we face can actually be prevented if we decide to run our families the way God intended it to be. God established the home and stated clearly how it should be managed. He gave different roles to individual parties in the home. I believe that God gave the man the leadership role in the home, as a husband and father. If this is the case, how then can a man fulfill his leadership role in the home?
There are about three ways I believe a man can fulfill his leadership role in the home.

  1. God expects you as a man to be a strong leader in your home:

It is not the will of God for a man to be weak in leading his home. You should be a strong leader, as strong as Adolf Hitler. Highly purposeful, well determined and very able to put your leg down and stand for the Godly values expected of us as believers in Christ. God said he is interested in Abraham because he knows he will command his house to obey God’s instruction. God wants you to be a kind of a man after God’s heart, who knows what God wants and is taking the responsibility to lead his family to follow God’s way without compromise.

  1. God expects you as a man to be a strong leader who will lead with love: it is the will of God for you to be a strong leader in the home who will lead with love. This is the challenging aspect to men. is not possible for men to be strong and firm and at the same time be loving tender. But this is what God is asking of us as men. He said “husbands, love your wives” and He also said “fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged”. This requires a tender love from the man. How then can a man strongly lead with love? To do this you must have a very close fellowship with Jesus. This kind of love is born in you in the place of personal communion with Christ. Jesus Christ is a perfect loving leader. And as a man you are to be like Him.

3.God expects you as a man to be a strong, loving leader who leads strategically:

I believe God wants you to develop a strategy to lead your home. You should do this by finding out what God’s will for the home is. What does God want every home to be and do? After discovering this, you will now form a strategy to fulfill it in your own home in order to raise a home that is Godly. Determine and write down the mission, vision and value statement for your family. Then come up with plans and strategies (what you will be doing and when you will be doing them and how you will be doing them), to fulfill this vision and produce these values in the home. For instance to build close fellowship and loving friendship in your home, you may schedule different times for all family members to be together. You should be innovative about this and plan according to what is available to you. Your goal is not to show off but to build up. Be focused and consistent. Know what you want and go for it. Know where you are going and lead your entire family there even if they don’t know the place yet. This is leadership.

In conclusion I want you to know that true leadership is not taking people from where they are to where they want to be, neither is it taking people from where they are to where you want them to be. Rather, true leadership is taking people from where they are to where they ought to be. Therefore you should know that true Godly leadership is all about taking people from where they are to where God wants them to be. This is your call as a man at home. Be a Godly leader. Find out where and what God wants your family to be and take them there. Seek God’s grace for this, though it is difficult but it is possible with God in your life. Shalom.

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